I was so deeply inspired and moved by Jenny’s post on Sunday, Flavors of Fatherhood, that it further inspired me to look at the father closest to me here in Kuwait, yup, the one I chose to be the father of my children, my husband. As young and in love 20 somethings we get married for our own selfish desires, and rightly so, this is the person WE plan to spend the rest of OUR lives with, we better choose carefully right. But more than that, for me, this was the man I was also choosing to be the father of my future babies. And I simply could not have picked a better dad for my children than this one.
A year ago, he came to me with this idea that he wanted to do a father and son golf themed photo session and I was all over it. What a charming way to capture this season of life. Our son was 2 and at the perfect age for this assignment. Still holding onto his baby cuteness but old enough to follow guided instructions.
Date and Time – April (Warming up here in Kuwait), 8am
Weather – warm and hazy, dust started to creep in by 10am
Location – Golf Course
Top Tip – We had spoken to one of the members of staff about the session and they were able to take us to a part of the course which they new would be empty that time of the morning. And since he then escorted us, we had no problems trying to explain what we were doing to security. Always get approval ahead of time when shooting on location, it will make for a smooth stress free morning.
The morning was a huge success, our little guy was on top form and just loving all the one to one attention without his sisters around. And my husband was more than thrilled with the results. He has his favourite three photos printed and proudly displayed in his office. I know that he will hold that moment in time close to his heart always and it was an honour for me to be able to have gifted
him, them, with that.
Now before anyone accuses us of favouring the boy, we are planning on doing a daddy-daughters session as well we just haven’t quite found the right theme yet. So if anyone has any original ideas, I’d love to read them in the comments below.
To quote Jenny “There are many different kinds of fathers in this world. There is the stoic father who labourers tirelessly for his family, expecting his actions to speak the words he can’t seem to share.” – Thank you my darling husband for everything that you do for us, for your actions in our lives are deafening.
Cheers to the dads